I never believed in whirlwind romances. I’ve always been the slow-burn type, savoring the slowness and relishing the steady build of momentum. But life, with all its unpredictability, surprised me in the most magical way when I met my partner.
Had I not been blind, I might’ve described it as love at first sight. That’s probably the closest thing to explain how I felt the first time we met. I thought the idea of instant love was too cheesy and overrated. But it happened to me. It was so much more. It was a connection deeper than I could explain, something that still escapes words. When we first shook hands, I just knew—this person would be in my life for keeps.
It all happened so fast, really. If my math is right, everything unfolded within a month. We met, and soon after, the constant communication began. Then came the night that sealed everything: a phone call that started at 9 in the evening and lasted until 5 in the morning. By the time we hung up, I knew—without a shadow of a doubt—that I was in this for the long haul. And since then, we began seeing each other almost every week, even though I was in the province and my partner in the city. Eventually, we decided to live together.
Our love story, though fast-paced at the beginning, quickly became a steady force. Unconventional, yes, but magical. In the first few months—what most would call the honeymoon stage—I faced some of the toughest battles of my life. Three months into our relationship, I nearly lost my life to a severe systemic fungal infection. A few months later, I was admitted to the ICU with severe uterine bleeding, once again, on the brink of death.
That first year was full of health battles, but through it all, my partner never left my side. She stood by me, unwavering and steadfast, building the strongest foundation of our love. Those trials, as challenging as they were, brought us closer together in a way that nothing else could. Looking back at everything we’ve been through; I realize how much I’ve grown not only as a person but as a partner. Our love has challenged me to dig deeper within myself, to face insecurities I didn’t even know I had. Every hurdle became an opportunity to grow stronger—not just individually but as a team.
My partner has taught me many things, but perhaps the most powerful lesson has been the truest form of love—self-love. Her love for me was so deep and unconditional that it showed me how to love myself. Through her support and belief in me, I learned to see my own worth, even when I struggled with it. She has always been there, supporting me in everything I do, and her love has helped me grow into a stronger, more self-assured person.
We also share countless small, intimate moments that remind me why I wouldn’t trade this life for anything else. For instance, we have this routine where, after a long day, we sit quietly with our tea (or coffee!) and simply talk about everything and nothing. Those moments, when the world outside feels distant, remind me why I wouldn’t want it any other way. The calm in the chaos—that’s our kind of magic.
In the years that followed, our relationship faced yet another challenge—one just as painful, though of a different nature. This time, it was the judgment and disapproval from people whose support we had expected. The tears, the difficulty, and the heartache weighed heavily on us, but once again, we fought for each other. Our love reigned, and we never gave up.
As the chaotic battles of our early years started to calm down, we learned how to manage our emotions and navigate problems better. The challenges didn’t disappear, but we became stronger, more resilient, and more in tune with one another.
Through love, I’ve learned that life’s battles, no matter how tough, are never faced alone. Love is about having someone who shows up, even when things get messy and difficult. It’s taught me resilience, patience, and a deep appreciation for the small victories that make life worth living.
Our relationship isn’t perfect, but I can confidently and proudly say that we’re at peace. We’re happy, content, and certain beyond measure that we will always fight for our love, no matter what comes our way.
My partner is the love of my life, the person who sees me for who I am, not just for the battles I face. She not only taught me the real meaning of love but also showed me how to love myself. Our love story may not follow a traditional script, but it’s ours, and it’s beautiful in all its messiness, magic, and strength. I wouldn’t want it any other way.
As we look toward the future, I can’t help but feel excited about what’s next for us. Whether it’s navigating new adventures or continuing to support each other in our individual journeys, I know that whatever comes, we’ll face it together.
If there’s one thing our love story has taught me, it’s that love isn’t about finding someone who makes life easier. It’s about finding someone who makes the hard parts worth fighting for. If you’re lucky enough to find that, hold on to it, and remember—love doesn’t have to fit a traditional script to be magical.